How to Talk to [Mamí & Papí] about Anything

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"My two sons' godmother, who is a first-generation Dominican in New York City, was having a really, really hard time getting through to her mother about taking extra precautions during the start of the COVID pandemic," says Juleyka Lantigua, host and creator of How to Talk to [Mamí & Papí] about Anything, Apple Podcasts' Spotlight show for January 2023. "It was like they were speaking to each other in two different languages. The cultural and generational differences between them seemed to push them further apart as their conversations progressed. I realized they represented millions of children and parents enmeshed in a drag-out white-knuckle fight because those of us who are 'Americanized' see the world—and most importantly, live in the world—very differently from our immigrant parents." Lantigua, who is a veteran reporter and founder and CEO of the digital audio and production company LWC Studios, launched How to Talk to [Mamí & Papí] about Anything in 2020. She found out quickly that many listeners could relate to the experiences discussed on the show. "It was a grand experiment, and we were nervous and excited," she says. "And then the emails started pouring in from listeners who never knew they needed these conversations or those who wished they'd had the show growing up 20,30, 50 years ago!"Each episode features a listener with a problem that can range from navigating relationships with parents who disapprove of their spouse to maintaining a relationship with a difficult parent for the sake of the grandchildren. An expert on the episode’s topic joins Lantigua on the show to offer professional advice and analyze the generational and cultural dynamics at play. "So many of us straddle that hyphen of being American and something else. So many of us are trying to honor our parents' ways while making our own way in the world," Lantigua says. "This is a place to find solace and really good advice."After nearly 150 episodes, Lantigua is taking the plunge into extending the brand with a sister show, How to Talk to [High Achievers] about Anything. And her hope is that there’s more where that came from. "My vision is that the "How to Talk to" franchise continues to grow and serve the rising-majority audience in the US for years to come.”

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  • Lv8623
    Dominican born, and growing up with parents who judge mental health
    I just found this podcast. I’m so happy I did. I needed to listen to something that is relatable to me and my upbriging as a Dominican girl who was raised by a bipolar mother (un-diagnosed). I want to stop this cycle of stigmatism against mental health with our family.
  • Doccelia6
    Thoughtful and Insightful
    So thoughtfully done! What I especially love is this that show showcases how we’re all so much more similar than we think. Super insightful and has quickly become one of my favorite pods.
  • Ms. Robles
    New listener and I love this podcast
    As many of the reviews mention this podcast empowers us with some tools and tips on how to build stronger relationships with our immigrant parents. We need to come from a place of love and respect.
  • #lolly#pet
    Making me a better parent
    I am a first gen Puerto Rican with three kids 18, 20 and 24. I am learning to be a better parent. Learning how to respect my children’s boundaries and their privacy. My children thank you!
  • canducha396
    So much gratitude
    I have fallen in love with this podcast. It is the most relatable content I’ve come across in a while. I learn from each episode and I just love how the mixture of individual’s stories as well as professionals sharing facts and knowledge. Thank you thank you THANK YOU for creating this podcast!!!
  • Yeahmanmaster2009
    The podcast I didn’t know I needed
    All the episodes feel like an extremely cathartic therapy session I didn’t know I needed! The stories are beyond relatable and even when there’s differences with specifics of communities and class and personalities the professionals take that into account so to give advice that can be useful to most situations, I love in the end when we have a recap of tips and do’s and don’ts, it’s honestly become probably one of my favorite podcast in a day! Like someone else said I wish I had this podcast when I was younger so i could’ve gone into those conversations more prepared but now I they’ve given me tools to re-approach those complicated topics! Honestly congrats for an amazing resource! And thank you!!! ✨🤍✨
  • hermanas of ¡No More Chichos!
    AMAZED
    1st episode i heard was the triangle episode and to say that you took my feelings and formed coherent thoughts and words would be an understatement. This is the podcast I wish I had growing up but grateful to have found it now in my adulthood.
  • User1637
    Where would I be without this show?
    Never seen myself or my experiences representing in a podcast so well like in this one. Thank you!
  • Tatianna M.
    I always find myself engaging with the experts
    I LOVE THIS SHOW! Juleyka goes deeper than "talking about our experiences" and brings in an expert to evaluate each conversation. This show is about informing and educating our communities with counselors, social workers, mental health professionals etc. I absolutely love it and "Dad Denies Systemic Racism" has been my favorite one so far. Thank you SO much for providing this platform. Thank you so much for allowing us to have this reource and helping us become better at talking to mami and papi about anything.
  • Rosy_9
    Amazing Resource
    I’ve binged all the episodes in the last two days and I’ve shared with my students. Very helpful tips on having open communication with our parents & family. Love the host as well!
  • zxcutiemdr
    COVID and Mamí
    I will never forget. It was Friday March 6th and it was pouring. I had finished my spin class. My industry had just canceled a major conference. I called my Mamí and Papí and said “We need to go buy groceries NOW” they both ignored me and didn’t understand why I was sounding the alarm. One week later there was all around panic and grocery shortages. And my Mamí for the first time in my life said to me “Mamita tenias la razon te hubiera escuchado” yup. And from then on I found myself as their source of information for the first time in my life. This podcast ROCKS!
  • Wall-eeeeee 111111
    Amazing!
    As a first-generation American, this podcast speaks directly to both my hopes and fears regarding communication with my folks. Thank you for creating this. I'm very much looking forward to future episodes!
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